Social Skills for Artists
Learn how to share your work with the right audiences, expand your network, and engage meaningfully with your community—while keeping the focus on curiosity and collaboration.
Tip: Networking is about curiosity, learning, and collaboration. Focus on building meaningful relationships rather than just “collecting contacts.”
DOs and DON’Ts
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DO:
Approach networking as building relationships, not pitching for sales.
Listen more than you talk — ask open-ended questions.
Be genuine and avoid over-inflating your accomplishments.
Look for opportunities to connect others, not just promote yourself.
DON’T:
Treat every interaction as a transaction.
Interrupt or dominate conversations.
Immediately hand someone your card without context or conversation.
Gossip or speak negatively about other artists or organizations.
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DO:
Prepare a 1–2 sentence “artist introduction” that’s clear and engaging.
Use approachable, non-technical language about your work.
Compliment something specific about the event, space, or another person’s work to open a conversation.
Ask thoughtful follow-up questions about the other person.
DON’T:
Launch into a long, uninterrupted monologue about your art.
Use jargon or overly complex language when first meeting someone.
Only talk about yourself — balance the exchange.
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Yes, people still shake hands — but follow the other person’s lead.
If unsure, offer a friendly “Nice to meet you” with a slight wave or nod.
Stand with open posture, make comfortable eye contact, and smile.
Mirror the tone and energy of the group you’re speaking with.
DON’T:
Force physical contact if the other person seems hesitant.
Cross your arms, fidget excessively, or check your phone mid-conversation.
Hover too close — respect personal space.
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DO:
Keep profiles up-to-date with clear images of your work.
Respond to messages or comments in a timely manner.
Give credit when sharing someone else’s work or ideas.
Engage in conversations by commenting thoughtfully on posts.
DON’T:
Tag people in unrelated posts or spam with event invites.
Overshare personal grievances or drama publicly.
Vanish after asking for help or support — follow up and say thank you.
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Send a short thank-you note or message within a few days.
Reference something specific from your conversation to jog their memory.
Offer to connect again (coffee, studio visit, online portfolio review).
Keep them updated with significant milestones — but sparingly.
DON’T:
Immediately send a long list of asks or requests.
Add them to a mailing list without permission.
Overwhelm them with too many updates or messages.
A “leave behind” is a small, tangible item you give someone so they remember you and your work after meeting you.
While traditional business cards are still useful, artists often take a more creative approach to make a stronger impression. Consider using postcards or showcards featuring one of your artworks, mini prints, stickers, or bookmarks with your imagery. Include your name, website, and contact details, and consider adding a QR code linking directly to your portfolio or social media. Keep them small, lightweight, and easy to tuck into a pocket or bag. The goal is to make it easy for people to reconnect with you — and to make your work memorable long after the conversation ends.
For example, you could use…
Professionally printed business cards with a striking image of your work
Postcards featuring one of your artworks on the front, contact info on the back
Small handmade art samples or mini prints
Branded bookmarks with your art and website
Stickers featuring your artwork or artist logo
Follow-Up Etiquette
Networking doesn’t end when the conversation is over — the real value often comes from following up. The key is to be timely, thoughtful, and genuine, without overwhelming the person you just met. Think of it less like a “sales pitch” and more like continuing a conversation.
Timing
Within 1–3 days: Send a short message thanking them for their time and, if relevant, mentioning something specific from your conversation.
Within 1–2 weeks: If there’s a reason to reconnect (share your work, follow up on an idea you discussed, or invite them to an event), reach out with that specific purpose.
Ongoing: Stay on their radar by occasionally sharing updates, congratulating them on accomplishments, or inviting them to relevant opportunities.
Tone
Keep it warm and conversational — no need for overly formal language unless that matches their style.
Be specific so it’s clear you remember who they are and what you discussed.
Avoid making every follow-up about asking for something — sometimes just checking in builds trust.
Examples
“It was great meeting you at the opening on Friday. I loved hearing about your recent residency — your stories about working in Berlin were inspiring!”
“You mentioned you were curious about artist residencies in the Midwest — here’s the link to one I think you’d like.”
“I’m having a small open studio this month — would love to see you there!”
Saying Thanks
A genuine thank-you can go a long way in leaving a positive, lasting impression. Whether someone introduced you to a new contact, visited your exhibition, purchased your work, or simply shared their time and advice, acknowledging it shows professionalism and builds goodwill.
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After someone attends your opening or event.
When a fellow artist connects you to a new opportunity.
If a curator, gallerist, or arts professional gives you feedback or guidance.
Following a sale, commission, or collaboration.
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In person: A warm, direct acknowledgment is always appreciated.
By email: Send a short, sincere note — no need for flowery language, just honest gratitude.
By card: A handwritten card or postcard (even better if it features your artwork) adds a personal touch.
Through social media: A public shout-out can be great, but make sure the recipient is comfortable being tagged.
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Be specific — “Thanks for coming to my opening” is fine, but “I really appreciated you taking the time to see my work and chatting with me about the new series” is more personal.
Keep it genuine and short — you don’t need to over-explain or gush.
Small gestures count — slipping a personal thank-you into a package when shipping artwork can create a lasting connection.